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Tuesday, July 12, 2005

+` Crush And Love.. Don't Mix Them Up! `+>

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+` It's normal to have a crush. That special heartfelt feelings which is just impossible to describe to anyone. One may think they're insane having those weird feelings. It's not as strong as what love is because that is not what a crush actually meant. A Crush is not Love, Vice-Versa. Let me tell the difference, right here on this blog. Hopefully those teens out there at least know the meanings of these. `+

+` Love is a deep yet treasured feeling one could have. Love is something permanent. Those in love would always think of their significant other. Those feeling would never go away. Even if there is a need to wash those feelings away, it would not be until a longer period of time. And trust me, to forget someone you love is such a difficult task to accomplish. For it would be such a torture, enduring such tremendous pain. `+

+` Losing someone you love is like losing a piece of your heart. Forced to throw a piece of you, for your love one have had been a part of you, a part of who you are right now. And Losing A piece of you is a hard fact to accept for it will never ever be the same, not anymore. Till then, everything around you would change. You would never feel the same no more. All you feel is nothing but loneliness and emptiness. Your heart would be in deep pain For you had just Lost A Piece Of You, the most special treasure you could ever find `+

+` Well, that is my definition of love. I can't guarantee though if that really showed the meaning of what love is. This is only my views about love, and what i feel about it. For all i know, love may have different meanings. Yet again, Love is such a special feeling that you don't need words to express that wondeful feeling. It can be express through those deep,soulful eyes of yours. Even I have yet to experience what love is, hopefully the one that begins with a happy ending. Stepping into Marriage Life is not ending that relationship, you've just taken one step ahead. It's always a beginning, never say a relationship ends with marriage, for it's only a beginning. Yes, only a beginning. `+

+` I probably have no right to write about love for i've yet to fall in love. But that's my own description of what love probably is about. I believe there's more to it than what i've seen, what i've heard. It probably won't be easy for, not all love are smooth sailing, that i know. Love is like a rose. There would be happy days ahead, but at the same time, those days are filled with thorns. In conclusion, Love is about hardship, obstacles that a couple have to face together with stride. If not, the love you shared would be meaningless. For you would never undertsand the meaning of hardship that one have to struggle. `+

+` I may have never experience love, but i did experienced several crushes before. I'm sixteen, and yes i do understand what crush acually meant. A crush is indeed a wonderful feeling, but it definitely won't last long. How hard you try to be faithful to that one special person, that feeling would be washed away someday. When you wake up, that special feeling you once had, would be gone. Just like that. Gone in a split second without you realising. +`

+` And it's easy to forget your crush if you want to. You wouldn't be that heartbroken, in such tremendous pain to forget a crush. It's never that hard to forget. For crush would never ever be the same of that of love. It never will be. One tip to forget a crush is to say you hate that crush of yours several times, in your head, in your mind, everywhere, anywhere would do. And that worked for me, wouldn't be a problem for others. Do try it. It would probably work for you, hopefully. If you can forget within a few days, then that is a crush. `+

+` And if after several weeks, months, you still can't forget that person. Then you had mistook that special feeling for a crush, when it's actually love. For love is a deep feeling where no words are necessary to describe it. So it's important to differentiate between a crush and love. So once you realise you're actually in love, and not some mutual feeling or infatuation, then please don't doubt that feeling. For everyone deserves a chance to love and to be loved. `+

+`Haneysa Journalist`+

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